Works of Love by Soren Kierkegaard
1.Title
Works of Love
2.Author
Soren Kierkegaard
3.Publisher
Harper Perennial Modern Thought
4.Translator Howard
and Edna Hong
5.Foreword
Georgr Pattison
4.Copyright Howard Hong @1962
5.ISBN
978-0-06-171327-9
6.Format
Paper Bound
7.Page Count 378
8.Price
US $ 15.99
9.Genre
Philosophy
10.Rating
*****
George Pattison ofOxford University
in his Foreword of July 2008 says:
”Works of Love is a book to be read and reread , pondered and practiced. . . .It is a kind of book that can change your life. Read it –but
then ‘go and do likewise’ “.I totally agree with Pattison’s words of advice.
Soren Kierkegaard in his preface of 1847 says that “These are Christian reflections;therefore they are not about love but about the works of love.”Also “no act can be pleasing there unless it is an act of love.”
George Pattison of
The book
is divided into two parts.Part One deals
with the three types of love .Erotic love , Friendship ,
and love for your neighbour. Obviously ,
the first two are preferential while the third is equal for all neighbours. The
first two are by our choice while the third in a mandate ;”You shall love your
neighbour”.
Part
Two deals with what are the Works of
Love that one is expected to do .
As the headings of various chapters in Part Two suggest ,
the list of Works of Love is as below :
1.Love Builds Up.
2.Love Believes All
Things and Yet Is Never Deceived.
3.Love Hopes All Things
and Yet Is Never Put to Shame.
4.Love Seeks Not Its Own.
5.Love Hides the
Multiplicity of Sins.
6.Love Abides.
7.Mercifulness a Work of Love,Even if It Can Give Nothing
And Is Capable of Doing Nothing.
8.The Victory of Reconciliation in Love
Which Wins the Vanquished.
9.The Work of Love in
Remembering One Dead.
10.The Work of Love in Praising Love.Soren Kierkegaard in his preface of 1847 says that “These are Christian reflections;therefore they are not about love but about the works of love.”Also “no act can be pleasing there unless it is an act of love.”
He says that one must believe in love .The presumptuous
practicality wants to deny the existence of love .In Christianity , to love is
duty and erotic love , friendship are
really another form of self-love.”But the road to hell is paved with good
intentions”.
The love relationship is a triangular relationship of the lover , the beloved , love (but love
is God.).Therefore to love another person
means to help him to love
God .To be loved means to be helped to
love God. Love is a matter of conscience and it is so only when love is from a clean heart and out of sincere
faith. Christianity has
indifference towards friendship.
To love a person just as you see him , with all his imperfections and
weaknesses, when he is utterly changed , when he no longer loves you.To love is
to remain in infinite debt;the infinitude of the debt is the bond of
perfection.Owe no man anything . But
nevertheless , be in debt of love to one another.
The ten types of works of love above that
Kierkegaard has listed are explained as
below :
1.Love builds up. It
is patient and willing to serve. Love builds up by pre-supposing that love is
present in the other person .
2.Love believes all things. To believe nothing is the
beginning of being evil since faith is
precisely the good in a man , which does not come through great knowledge.
3.Love hopes all things. Never in unlovingness give up a person or give up hope for him , for it is possible
that even the most prodigal son can still be saved , for it is possible
that the most embittered enemy , alas ,
he who was your friend , it is still possible that he can again become your friend
;it is possible that he can be raised up
again; it is still possible that the
love which has turned cold can burn
again—therefore , never give up any man , not even at the last moment; do not
despair. No, hope all things! Hope all things ;give up no man , for to give him
up is to abandon your love for him –and if you do not give it
up , then you hope. But if you abandon your love for him , then you yourself
cease to be a lover.
4. Love seeks not its own .For the true lover does not love
his own individuality. Quite the opposite, in others he loves “their own”. The
lover has understood that in truth the
greatest , the only benediction one man
can accomplish for another is to help him stand alone , to become
himself , to become his own.
5.Love hides the multiplicity of sins .Lover does not
attempt to discover any sins in the
other .He shuns slander, back-biting , rumour , gossip ,
scandal-mongering and manufacture of lies. He hides other’s sin in silence , in
a mitigating explanation , in forgiveness. The best way to hide the sins is by
forgiveness .Forgiveness takes vitality away from sin; but to withhold forgiveness
nourishes sin .True lover forgives, he forgets ,he blots out sin. Forgive
and you will also be forgiven .The forgiveness which you give , you also receive.
6. Love abides. Love never fails. There is no misunderstanding
which sooner or later will not be conquered by
his abiding, there is no hate that
ultimately will not have to give
up and yield to his abiding—in eternity
if not sooner. In erotic love , one cannot be
unconditionally faithful. Therefore the erotic love does not abide ;it
is not eternal.
7. Mercifulness is a work of love , even if it has nothing
to give and is able to do nothing .
8. The victory of reconciliation in love .Work of love is
to set the other free from being humiliated , to set him free from thinking dejectedly about the
forgiveness which he needs.
9.The work of love in remembering one who is dead, is a work
of the most unselfish love , the most faithful love .The one dead is not the
one who changes ,it is the one living who changes. Remember one dead and learn
in just this way to love the
living disinterestedly , freely and faithfully.
10. The work of love in praising love .In order to be able
to truly praise love , there is a need for inward self-denial
and outward sacrificial
disinterestedness.
Kierkegaard
concludes as follows: ”To love human beings is still the only thing worth living for .;without love , you really
do not live; to love human beings is also the only salutary consolation of both time and eternity.” Love is one of
the central aspects of existence And
also, ”Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not
notice the log that is in your own eye?” Avoid speaking the wrongs of others
towards you , about the speck in your brother’s eye .
I admire Kierkegaard
for his remarkable depth and clarity. He was undoubtedly one of the great thinkers of 19th
century , and the greatest Philosopher
born in Denmark .
He has demonstrated in this book that
love saves us from isolation and
unites us with one another and with God. The ten major types of works of love
and their essence help us to realise the
meaning of love. For those who like serious reading , I recommend this book .It
has the potential to change the lives of its readers.
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